Donald Trump and maga Republicans must revisit the basics of decency and kindness! End hate speech caused by extremism

Civility matters:  Maine Writer preface, it is time to revisit quotes by Fred Rogers.  "There are three ways to ultimate success: The first way is to be kind. The second way is to be kind. The third way is to be kind."

Echo opinion letter published in the Philadelphia Inquirer:

I fear we are losing sight of how effective democratic political discourse has historically depended on applying the “Golden Rule” across party lines — that is, treating others as you would like to be treated yourself. In one notable example, then-presidential candidate, Republican John McCain, publicly defended his opponent, Democrat Barack Obama, during a town-hall meeting in 2008 when one person stated, “I don’t trust Obama … he is an Arab.” “No, ma’am,” McCain responded. “He’s a decent family man, citizen, that I just happen to have disagreements with on fundamental issues, and that’s what this campaign is all about.”

At that time, political debates emphasized policy differences rather than constant ad hominem personal attacks. Lawmaking in our democracy was understood to nearly always require compromise. However, this administration’s stated intention is to “flood the zone” with divisive and inflammatory rhetoric, purposely cutting off constructive and factual dialogue over policy differences.

A return to resilient American democracy calls for increased bipartisanship, collaboration across political lines, and stopping the personal attacks on character, integrity, and motives of those with differing political views. 

Recently, there was widespread public advocacy for a renewed commitment to our First Amendment rights. We must seize the moment and extend it to encouraging “Golden Rule” practices within our democracy. Healthy debate requires that we disagree without being disagreeable. A return to respectful and civil political discourse is essential if our Great American Experiment is to survive.

From Douglas Coe, retired captain, U.S. Navy, and former senior executive at U.S. Nuclear Regulatory Commission, Gaithersburg, Maryland.

America United! #AmericaStrong: Make it happen!

One country, one people, one government 

By Leah Curtin, R.N., ScD (h) FAAN

Let’s expect more from our politicians—and each other. 

BY THE TIME this article is published (in American Nurse), it will be time to inaugurate President Joe Biden. 

Once upon a time, the new president—whether a Republican or a Democrat—made a nonpartisan inauguration speech. 

For the most part, they talked about what it means to be an American. Not a Republican or a Democrat, an American. 

One country. One people. One government. Re - publican and Democrat making all of us safe, all of us one. How did that happen? 

Most of us were raised on the “Golden Rule”: Do unto others what we would want done unto ourselves. It’s a good and a clear standard for a democracy of differences. Now, our “values” seem to be personal freedom, personal independence, and “my civil rights.” And in the middle of the COVID19 pandemic, that means nurses and doctors are worked beyond exhaustion. 

America itself never really wins anymore; political parties win—or lose. A set of political persuasions that insist “it’s my way or the highway.” In years past, we held to the Golden Rule, which seemed to give us process, civility, and balance. In the (hopefully temporary) absence of this grand old value, I propose a restatement of what we the people should expect from our politicians (and one another): 

• Being president does not make a person God. This also forbids idolatry, even of the self. No narcissists allowed. 

• Civil discourse and human respect are the underpinnings of democracy. When we destroy as a people what we say we value as a people by mocking, deriding, or dividing one American from another, we lay a curse that will destroy us all. 

• Keep being ‘presidential’ as a symbol of the republic. If we reduce the quality of the presidency to the level of entertainment, we substitute celebrity for genuine leadership. 

• Honor both sides of the aisle—Republican and Democrat. To develop national answers to serious questions, we must work together as fellow Americans with different perspectives and approaches to the same problems. 

• Thou shalt not kill the American spirit of inclusion. The U.S. Congress was created to bring order, reflection, and compromise between political forces, not to create situations in which one side wins and the other loses. 

• Thus, thou shalt not practice sexism, racism, xenophobia, or global exclusion. In an intercultural world, what counts is what we have in common, not how we differ. 

• Thou shalt not steal from the poor to give to the rich nationally or globally. Real democracy demands just and decent distribution of the basics of life. In the end, it’s the only thing that will strengthen our country. 

• Thou shalt not lie in tweets, advertisements, or administrative and congressional speeches. It is the highest treason done for the sake of the shortest ever triumph. 

• Thou shalt not insult thy neighbor. The purpose of politics is to give all voices and insights a chance to be heard. To aim insults at another, especially a public servant, only loosens the bonds between us. 

• Thou shalt not take for yourself what rightfully belongs to the other. Embezzlement, lying, fraud, tax evasion, and vandalism are all wrong. No exceptions. 

From where I stand, it seems that the Golden Rule was so much simpler. At least we were less likely to hear the crude, rude, and lewd comments that have become part and parcel of our political language. 

Leah Curtin, RN, ScD(h), FAAN Executive Editor, Professional Outreach American Nurse Journal