President Obama spoke about growing up without a father - he was at risk for the litany

Freddie Gray of Baltimore is the latest in the litany of police related killings.  He's among the partial list of victims, including Trayvon Martin, in Florida, Eric Garner in Staten Island New York, Michael Brown in St. Louis MO & Tamir Rice in Cleveland, a child who was only 12 years old who was shot by a police officer while he was carrying a water pistol. Freddie Gray lived in a section of Baltimore where boys routinely grow up without fathers. These groups of fatherless young men learn survival skills from one another on the streets, but they don't benefit from having a father in their family. Although many father's fall short of being good providers and role models, the absence of a strong male mentor contributes to the youths thinking there are no authority figures in their world.

By the Grace of God, there was a risk of Barack Obama having the same exposure to police violence.  He spoke about growing up without a father many times, including in an excellent Q & A reported in October 2007, in The New York Times.

Obama talks about growing up without a father  by Jeff Zeleny

WASHINGTON, Iowa – By now, the stump speeches delivered by presidential candidates have become routine, at least to many of the politically inclined voters of Iowa and New Hampshire. 

So the most interesting moments at campaign appearances often are inspired from those seated in the audience.

Near the end of a stop here today, Senator Barack Obama was asked this question from a man seated in the crowd at the Washington County fairgrounds: “What would you say is the most painful and character-building experience of your life that puts you in a position to make important decisions of life and death and the well being of our country?”

For a moment or two, Mr. Obama paused. It was far different from the string of questions posed on policies and issues. Finally, he said: “It’s a terrific question.”

And here, in its entirety, is his answer:
“I would say the fact that I grew up without a father in the home. What that meant was that I had to learn very early on to figure out what was important and what wasn’t, and exercise my own judgment and in some ways to raise myself.

My mother was wonderful and was a foundation of love for me, but as a young man growing up, I didn’t have a lot of role models and I made a lot of mistakes, but I learned to figure out that there are certain values that were important to me that I had to be true to.

Nobody was going to force me to be honest. Nobody was going to force me to work hard. Nobody was going to force me to have drive and ambition. Nobody was going to force me to have empathy for other people. But if I really thought those values were important, I had to live them out.

That’s why it’s so important for me now, both as a United States senator and as a president candidate, but also as a father and a husband to wake up every morning and ask myself, am I living up to those values that I say are important? Because if I’m not, then I shouldn’t be president.”

President Obama made a choice to be something other than a young man without a father.  He chose to become motivated and ambitious. I believe all humans have this same capacity to better themselves. Nevertheless, President Obama also had a strong male presence in his home, it was his veteran grandfather.  Inner city  youths need similar guidance and leadership but generations have grown up without this help. Something must be done soon, because, society has already seen the consequences of inaction.

Petty crimes lead to tragic sound bites from growing list of racist brutality

"I can't breathe" joins "Hands up don't shoot" and other horrible sound bites describing violent racist encounters, with deadly outcomes.  None of these incidents involved hard core criminals.

In spite of the obvious opportunity certain police officers had to avoid deadly encounters, the Grand Juries investigating the Michael Brown and Eric Garner deaths ruled against recommending an indictment of the police officers who used deadly force.

What's curious to me is how the litany of tragic incidents have involved petty crimes.

Rodney King (1965-2012) - beaten after a high speed automobile chase in 1991, in Los Angeles CA: "Can't we just get along?" became the mantra.

Treyvon Martin (1995-2012) murdered by George Zimmerman in Sanford, Florida, for walking in a gated community

Michael Brown (1996-2014) - shot to death by police officer Darren Wilson in Ferguson Missouri after he was accused of shop lifting

Eric Garner, age 43,- died after being subdued by police officers on Staten Island, after he was accused of selling cigarettes

A Staten Island grand jury on Wednesday ended the criminal case against a white New York police officer whose chokehold on an unarmed black man led to the man’s death, a decision that drew condemnation from elected officials and touched off a wave of protests.

The fatal encounter in July was video taped and seen around the world. But after viewing the footage and hearing from witnesses, including the officer who used the chokehold, the jurors deliberated for less than a day before deciding that there was not enough evidence to go forward with charges against the officer, Daniel Pantaleo, 29, in the death of the man, Eric Garner, 43.




It makes no sense to see individual young black men singled out for petty crimes, when so many dangerous criminals, organized crime syndicates and drug dealings are going on right under our eyes, in nearly every American community.



There's injustice involved in every murder, regardless of the circumstances or facts.  

Nevertheless, it seems to me, the litany of morbidity and mortalities related to petty crimes - in the case of Treyvon Martin, no crime whatsoever was committed......just seems like police resources are inappropriately misplaced to single out defenseless Black men. King, Martin, Brown and Garner were unarmed. There's a rapidly growing problem with our police forces when they single out individuals for extraordinary treatment without due process, rather than focusing on real ciminals who threaten our communities with drugs, guns and corruption.